Update on Yakuza and Dating Japanese men

The Yakuza really isnt that scary. In fact, if your a black or white foreigner, they generally enjoy talking to you. But if you're a asian foreigner, you might be a bit unwelcome.

I have needed to enlist the help of the Yakuza due to some crazy incident, I cant get into it now. But I realized, I shouldnt be afraid of them. Better to be their friend than an enemy.

The Yakuza isnt some secret society in Japan. In fact, they have offices you can just walk into. lol. But most people dont. for some reason, the police never go after them either when they do shit. So they are openly out there and feared. oh well.

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As for Japanese men cheating on their wives, the wives also play some part in their infidelity. So its really their own fault if they cant keep a man whipped or tamed for a while so he doesnt cheat 'as often'... I know a guy who cheats as much as possible, at least 2 or 3 different women per week. crazy.

The wives stop having sex with their husband, so they have to find other women. i heard the wives just get married to trap them, like for money and a stable life. Have a kid or 2, and then stop fucking them period. Then can just use them for money and child support, dont allow them to have another girlfriend either even when they stop fucking them for years. I know another guy who hasnt had sex with his wife for 6 years. and he's supposed to pretend he's ok and happy. and he cant have another girlfriend either. (but of course he cheats) I know like 4 or 5 guys like this, who havent had sex for the wife in years because their wife 'doesnt like sex.' lol.

i think they are actually naive enough to think that the husband will stay faithful all them years too, of no sex. they'd be doing themselves a favor to fuck him more often. and spice it up a bit, be exotic every once in a while so he's not out looking for others everyday...

I know the game. marriage with japanese women=sexless mariage. you didnt know this beforehand, before you married? hahaha... just ask any japanese man... I know about 5 or 6 or them married, and having another mistress as well. I dont blame them that much...

But these guys know their fathers cheated on their mothers as well. So I'm surprised they settled down, period. Better to play the field, adopt and be a single father if you want a child. So some lady isnt using up all your money and have financial attachment forever. At least you can spend money on a kid thats only yours.

maybe the wives pretend they like sex in the beginning, and then be like yeahhhh lets have a baby... he thinks the love life will continue after the baby, and it never does. lol.

Thanksgiving in Japan

If you are living overseas, and missing your favorite holiday foods, you need to either improvise or have something sent over your home country/order online.

I have been wanting some velvetta cheesy macaroni and some instant stuffing, and cranberry sauce. So my aunt was supposed to be mailing that stuff to me, as well as some Chocolate Lucky Charms. I love those things.

Well it was taking a bit too long to arrive. And I realized/remembered that instant things didnt always exist around here. So I headed out to the super market to get ingrediants and make everything from stratch.


This picture is just basic, but I could have made a whole dinner with turkey and corn, sweet potatoes, etc..


I made stuffing with lots of nice seasonings. And I made original chesse sauce for my pasta. I used milk and cheeses- orange kraft, and some japanese white cheese. It was delicious.

As for cranberry sauce, I was going to make that original too. But I had a ton of blueberries in my home that I needed to eat before they go bad. So I made original blueberry sauce instead. It was pretty delicious.


Im still waiting for my instant food to arrive in the mail. But finally when I had a little time on my hands, it wasnt difficult to find ingredients and make everything from stratch. :)